Wednesday, 21 December 2011

Marriage Rituals in Arya Samaj Weddings

Marriage Rituals in Arya Samaj Weddings

Although, Arya Samaj marriages are mainly for Hindus, any couple from Non-Hindu background can also be allowed to marry if he or she converts as Hindu by going through the process of Shuddhi i.e.
Purification. Arya Samaj wedding ceremonies are very simple and do have only few essential rituals such as Mehndi, Brahmbhoj (by which 16 brahmins invited for lunch), pholo ka gehna (by which bride has to adorn herself with jewelery and flowers) etc. At the wedding day, both bride and groom arrive at the wedding venue and perform the ritual of Madhuparka in which groom takes Madhuparka which is a mixture of curd, honey and ghee.  Then the ritual of varmala take place in which both bride and groom shares the garland of flowers as according to Indian custom and traditions. After that the ritual of kanyadaan takes place in which the parents of the bride take the hand of their daughter to groom. Then the rituals such as Havana, Pani Grahan, Thread ceremony, swagat vidhi, parikarma are followed. Lastly, the Arya samaj wedding ends with the Ashirwaad and Aarti ceremonies in which the couple is blessed by their elders.

Arya Samaj Wedding


Arya Samaj Wedding
Overview of Arya samaj weddings
Weddings in Arya Samaj community
are full of rituals and customs and very much influenced by religion or community that people follows. However, these rituals and customs are endless still they are the real source of entertainment for one and all. There are many people in the Hindu society who don’t believe in this long list of customs and rituals and grand celebrations. For those, Arya Samaj wedding is the perfect answer.

Arya samaj was founded by Swami Dayanand Saraswati in 1875 at Mumbai. Arya Samaj is very much influenced by Vedas and so the weddings in Arya Samaj community too performed as per vedic rites. As Arya Samaj doesn’t believe in Idoltory, the Arya Samaj Wedding ceremony simply performed with fire and other elements.  Marriages in Arya Samaj community are different from the normal Hindu marriages as it doesn’t believe in all the customs and traditions as it involves in Hindu marriages. The wedding ceremony hardly takes 2 or 3 hours and at a very low expense. In short, simplicity is the key essence in Arya Samaj Weddings.